tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6567562863467636840.post3903463641027982908..comments2024-01-03T02:57:10.371-05:00Comments on The NovelistaBarista : Ohhhh DramaTeach.Workout.Lovehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06093196435468090916noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6567562863467636840.post-50696549807454267002010-09-16T18:42:30.506-04:002010-09-16T18:42:30.506-04:00Ahhh hunny, what a mess. I'm so sorry... I hop...Ahhh hunny, what a mess. I'm so sorry... I hope that he gets his head on straight and realizes how fabulous you are before it's too late.<br /><br />I don't want to spit out a bunch of one-sided advice, but just remember: you are wonderful and deserve the best. If he isn't / won't give that to you, you deserve better. xoxoxShop Girl*https://www.blogger.com/profile/07738681406180590822noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6567562863467636840.post-3575321097150842712010-09-16T18:40:32.909-04:002010-09-16T18:40:32.909-04:00From a man's point of view, and also from the ...From a man's point of view, and also from the point of view of someone who dashes out at them, it is clear he wants to do as he pleases and not have the responsibility of the commitment issue. Don't fall for the, "I miss you" clause there. It is insencere especially when his heart and his feelings are not in synch with yours.PorkStarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13237764791827136434noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6567562863467636840.post-61142384760562805962010-09-16T08:23:01.005-04:002010-09-16T08:23:01.005-04:00I'd advise you not to put up with any sh*t fro...I'd advise you not to put up with any sh*t from him. Be with someone who WANTS to be with you, no matter what. It's great that you've kept your friends and don't let any man take that away from you.<br /><br />If you want to be with him tell him ensure that it's not one-sided and not only on his terms. <br /><br />It always hurts in the beginning but then it will hurt less and less and you'll find yourself in a better situation.<br /><br />Good luck xallaboutghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07821179766375863803noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6567562863467636840.post-33770981332045947372010-09-15T17:17:51.709-04:002010-09-15T17:17:51.709-04:00I don't really have any advice, but imagine me...I don't really have any advice, but imagine me giving you a big, comforting, hug.undomestic mamahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08365939971706663619noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6567562863467636840.post-79719971730327141252010-09-15T16:38:07.067-04:002010-09-15T16:38:07.067-04:00My only advice would be don't back down on thi...My only advice would be don't back down on things that are important to you. In my last serious relationship I didn't stand up for what I needed. I was always afraid to put my foot down, afraid to rock the boat because I was afraid to risk losing him.<br /><br />Hold your ground. If you think you will be with this person for a long time it's important to make very clear what is and is not acceptable early on. <br /><br />Just know that it is my experience that guys are better boyfriends to girls that hold them at higher standard. Guys respect girls that respect themselves.<br /><br />Best of luck.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6567562863467636840.post-87595876479458878622010-09-15T14:16:59.633-04:002010-09-15T14:16:59.633-04:00You know, in situations like these there really is...You know, in situations like these there really isn't that is comforting to make the situation better. Unfortuantly, you are doing the right thing and giving him his space to "think about it".<br /><br />Don't be upset with yourself for opening up to a guy you really like. Love and relationships require taking risks. You'll never find "the one" without risking opening up. <br /><br />Not to be extrememly negative, but he sounds immature. He doesn't sound like he is ready for a relationship. He should still be allowed his night outs with the boys but at the same time consider your other half on the other days. It's a balance that he has to learn. And if he comes back to you saying he wants to make it work, great. But don't expect so much too soon. He has to adjust and you both have to compromise. <br /><br />I hope it all works out. Keep us updated!!Ms Kaysohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14651144982446245591noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6567562863467636840.post-29214607302152441142010-09-15T13:57:32.703-04:002010-09-15T13:57:32.703-04:00Men are scared of commnitment and it sounds like h...Men are scared of commnitment and it sounds like he was never held accountable for his actions. Men love to have their cake and eat it too! We as strong women have to let them know that we will still love them but also still demand the respect we deserve. Let him know that he can still have his alone time but also needs to acknowledge the fact that he is in a committed relationship and act accordingly.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6567562863467636840.post-12120855752558254212010-09-15T13:37:11.888-04:002010-09-15T13:37:11.888-04:00Oh NB.
This is tough.
You're going to get ...Oh NB. <br /><br />This is tough. <br /><br />You're going to get heartbroken-it's part of the deal. You know that. <br /><br />At the end of the day-it's up to him. He has to appreciate the NB for the jewel she is, or he has to beat feet. If he's not smart enough to do that, he is not worth hanging on to. <br /><br />You'll be fine-first, last, and always. If he doesn't see you are worth keeping, then he's too dumb to hang on to.8https://www.blogger.com/profile/00897636875216996092noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6567562863467636840.post-78223869834203158752010-09-15T13:32:35.334-04:002010-09-15T13:32:35.334-04:00if you haven't already, read "he's ju...if you haven't already, read "he's just not that into you". it changed my life for the better.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com