tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6567562863467636840.post4439970286021966750..comments2024-01-03T02:57:10.371-05:00Comments on The NovelistaBarista : today sucks.Teach.Workout.Lovehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06093196435468090916noreply@blogger.comBlogger26125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6567562863467636840.post-47403786839902278652009-11-11T22:52:20.511-05:002009-11-11T22:52:20.511-05:00Everyone has been commenting but I would say cance...Everyone has been commenting but I would say cancel the phone. Janet Jackson asked once upon a time, What has he done for you lately? I mean what's the worse that could happen? You move on? Doesn't seem too bad to me!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6567562863467636840.post-29982953755626420762009-11-11T11:05:31.478-05:002009-11-11T11:05:31.478-05:00you dont need to go through this crap. i say cance...you dont need to go through this crap. i say cancel the phone. i agree, people shouldnt move in together unless they've been together for a while or are engaged as you said.Lunahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00606802403486080087noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6567562863467636840.post-26904039084298435122009-11-11T10:00:42.833-05:002009-11-11T10:00:42.833-05:00I'm so sorry!
I still have a bunch of stuff at...I'm so sorry!<br />I still have a bunch of stuff at my ex's house because I spent nearly every weekend there. It has been more than two months and I haven't gone to get it :(Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6567562863467636840.post-41959221508230710992009-11-11T09:37:47.945-05:002009-11-11T09:37:47.945-05:00You said it in that last sentence, and you should ...You said it in that last sentence, and you should cancel the phone. It's a tie to him you simply don't need, especially if you're hoping to or trying to move on.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6567562863467636840.post-49465363929960498682009-11-11T09:18:46.696-05:002009-11-11T09:18:46.696-05:00I say, cancel it. And move on. And be happy! Pleas...I say, cancel it. And move on. And be happy! Please be happy, don't stress over things you cannot change. Stay positive(:مىhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11722297580284819814noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6567562863467636840.post-85661526810365684422009-11-11T06:58:08.803-05:002009-11-11T06:58:08.803-05:00You already got so many suggestions that i don'...You already got so many suggestions that i don't think its any useful and after all, you pretty sure know what needs to be done and what you would eventually do.<br />Nez...i feel..had i been there in ur shoes..i would have kept the connection...somethngs mean and feel more than anythng else. I would have kept it. :)<br />And job...oh my...dont say that....i am in that mud myself...and its the same story...all that elates me is the thgt and motive to try somethng different at the same place or try the same at a different place. Good Luck!!!Garfhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04770560263385007142noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6567562863467636840.post-109037963610156732009-11-11T01:30:41.498-05:002009-11-11T01:30:41.498-05:00Aww I'm sorry you're hitting the lows.
One...Aww I'm sorry you're hitting the lows.<br />One thing to remember is that it's always going to pass,whatever it is. Wait for that.Honey Beehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17895091186649302554noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6567562863467636840.post-34725622387579171722009-11-11T00:13:17.241-05:002009-11-11T00:13:17.241-05:00I am so sorry for what you are going through. I on...I am so sorry for what you are going through. I once was in the exact same position. Phone issues and all. I can say that it really does get better!BonBon Rose Girls Kristinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10699626979106427874noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6567562863467636840.post-78859058659620308392009-11-10T22:32:41.200-05:002009-11-10T22:32:41.200-05:00Dudeeeeee cancel that thing NOW!!!! and then charg...Dudeeeeee cancel that thing NOW!!!! and then charge him those $90<br /><br />so sad that your day sucked :/ tomorrow will be better, promise ;).:*aMbAr*:.https://www.blogger.com/profile/14163925947797253348noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6567562863467636840.post-83289432213703163662009-11-10T20:44:13.800-05:002009-11-10T20:44:13.800-05:00It´s hard to let it go, but is the only way to get...It´s hard to let it go, but is the only way to get over it. I was also scared when I stopped talking to my exboyfriend, I had the worst time, but after a week of not answering the phone or text messsages, everything started to feel better. You can do it! I would pay the 90$ and move on.Ana Laura Ehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01923934492828997975noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6567562863467636840.post-73450410791253457812009-11-10T20:08:30.259-05:002009-11-10T20:08:30.259-05:00Please cancel it! You will feel so much better whe...Please cancel it! You will feel so much better when you do. We are all here for you. <3The Snarky Narwhalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09714616166738636635noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6567562863467636840.post-38357263983653851492009-11-10T19:21:27.761-05:002009-11-10T19:21:27.761-05:00I'm sorry you have to go through this, but I s...I'm sorry you have to go through this, but I say cancel too. You need to move on completely, beside the money could be turned into a nice new piece of clothes or two. <br /><br />ps. good call on not moving with someone unless you;re engaged. valuable lesson, I agree with that completely.Andharihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08341293139717998410noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6567562863467636840.post-10599278890879897472009-11-10T18:42:23.499-05:002009-11-10T18:42:23.499-05:00You already know the answer but it's just havi...You already know the answer but it's just having the strength...you have that also, even if it may not seem that way right now xChris Goochhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14634227282244052213noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6567562863467636840.post-62467525792085810202009-11-10T17:24:33.590-05:002009-11-10T17:24:33.590-05:00you.
it makes me sad that you had a bad day. im gi...you.<br />it makes me sad that you had a bad day. im giving you a hug.. you cant see it or feel it but i am.<br /><br />ok.. i dont know if youve talked to him, or how hard ti would be if you texted him.. (ive always sucked at the whole.. never talk to them again thing) maybe asking him would clear things up..let him know you want to transfer it and give him a heads up. maybe itll also clear the air and you can just check in on each other to make sure your ok. im so so sorry hun. you know where to find me if you need to talk. xoonicole mountzhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01776049759431095742noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6567562863467636840.post-23528013569452969582009-11-10T15:11:52.577-05:002009-11-10T15:11:52.577-05:00Definitely cancel the phone even though I complete...Definitely cancel the phone even though I completely understand it is the last least, that has got to be tough and I know how hard it is to let go. But you need to heal and find a job and friends that make you truly happy, this all takes time, I am not telling you to rush, but the longer you draw things out (believe me I drew out my pain for a year or more) the longer it will take to heal. Hope you feel better soon! XO!Sierra https://www.blogger.com/profile/00915109851341043600noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6567562863467636840.post-52484400411153752662009-11-10T14:54:48.497-05:002009-11-10T14:54:48.497-05:00I just found your blog, and I simply adore it. I ...I just found your blog, and I simply adore it. I am sorry you are going through such a painful experience. I agree with everyone else - cancel it! You don't deserve to let this ruin your days! I hope everything works out!Meghanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16817388382674881766noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6567562863467636840.post-90758346832858078042009-11-10T14:40:07.592-05:002009-11-10T14:40:07.592-05:00I'm with Kimberly. Let him know he needs to t...I'm with Kimberly. Let him know he needs to transfer it to his name or it will be disconnected. I'd give him a date. For example if the phone is still on your bill for a full month in advance when you get the December bill, you'll call to cancel it. This is his call...he can keep it and pay for it or you can disconnect it. <br /><br />This may feel like a connection to him (and I understand why it does), but it really isn't a connection if you're not talking to each other on it. Instead of a connection, it is a way for him to use you. And I'm with EVERYONE here when they say you are WAY too special for that! You can think of the $90 as a problem because of your new apartment...or you can think of it as a one time payment rather than a consistent monthly payment for as long as he's willing to use you. That choice is yours...<br /><br />Much Love,<br />MercedesMiss Mercedeshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06349482134336471954noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6567562863467636840.post-69166371613553530232009-11-10T14:24:07.243-05:002009-11-10T14:24:07.243-05:00I'm sorry you're feeling so sad. Men suck....I'm sorry you're feeling so sad. Men suck. I put myself in your position and yeah, would cringe every time someone would tell me to pay the 90 bucks and move on. It's not that easy. The final cut is always the hardest.<br />But here I am, on the other side, telling you the best thing is to pay the 90 bucks and get him out of your life completely.<br />You deserve better and you will find a great guy down the road. You just need to move on first.<br />E-mail me if you ever need to talk!Jennifer Fabuloushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07521908385026885699noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6567562863467636840.post-20440895948931492442009-11-10T13:59:44.516-05:002009-11-10T13:59:44.516-05:00Totally cancel the phone. he is dead weight on you...Totally cancel the phone. he is dead weight on your mental health right now. crappy jobs suck...i'm sorry yours is draining you. if you've never been alone for long, it might be just what the doctor ordered. invest in YOU. relationships aren't all they're cracked up to be anyway. enjoy some alone time.*krystyn*https://www.blogger.com/profile/08611182339906918223noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6567562863467636840.post-31525563277604312592009-11-10T13:26:39.310-05:002009-11-10T13:26:39.310-05:00Not to mention what kind of man would just let you...Not to mention what kind of man would just let you keep paying for his phone! so immature and disrespectful ...ok sorry im doneStephaniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03547437512372991137noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6567562863467636840.post-76047930975770121852009-11-10T13:26:13.741-05:002009-11-10T13:26:13.741-05:00IF its easy to transfer phone into his name do tha...IF its easy to transfer phone into his name do that. I agree with Mandy. But if not for sure pay the 90 dollars and get him outta your life. You dont deserve to keep paying for someones phone who you aren't with anymore.Stephaniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03547437512372991137noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6567562863467636840.post-78396386064013571862009-11-10T13:19:18.173-05:002009-11-10T13:19:18.173-05:00If having the phone transfered to him is easy, the...If having the phone transfered to him is easy, then I would do that first. If that means you have to contact him then I would maybe just send him a text message or email that says you are no longer paying for his phone bill and that he needs to contact them to have the phone bill transfered to his name. Tell him if he chooses to delete your email or ignore your text messages, his phone will be cancelled. It's no longer up to you to pay for it.paddle to shorehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17888631049230251512noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6567562863467636840.post-77207440106012699942009-11-10T13:09:13.616-05:002009-11-10T13:09:13.616-05:00can you transfer it to him easily? i would do that...can you transfer it to him easily? i would do that! screw having to pay any more money on him! and i hear you about the job. i've been unhappy at mine for almost 5 years now, but it's SO HARD to find something else right now, esp. in my field. ugh.Mandy Kayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07577816782457875126noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6567562863467636840.post-59423914565454287762009-11-10T12:55:58.523-05:002009-11-10T12:55:58.523-05:00Cancel the phone. Money and things are not worth m...Cancel the phone. Money and things are not worth mental anguish.Marahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14225939818950997678noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6567562863467636840.post-60522482353131134592009-11-10T11:58:27.687-05:002009-11-10T11:58:27.687-05:00I am sorry you are going through this :(
I don...I am sorry you are going through this :(<br /><br />I don't know if I have any advice to give you but I am sending good thoughts and positive energy your way, okay?Sarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04656558334718631275noreply@blogger.com