is this possible? are you able to forgive someone you loved who has hurt you? are you able to be with them and get along and make things work and forget?
i am in the process of working with this right now and and even though i want to forgive and move past everything, i my jealousy keeps getting in the way, when the things that happened when we werent together, i can't really be jealous of because i was doing my own thing too and pretty much in the same exact way.
my real question is, how do you put aside jealousy so that it doesn't ruin everything?
especially when the other person is being honest, and even though i don't fully trust him, i know he is being honest based on things he shows me. its so hard! when did it all become this hard?
