Everything has been good with M and I. We get alone really well, we have fun together, we go out, we do things, we see each other, we like each other, we compliment each other.. etc etc. One on going problem in our relationship from day one has been his psycho ex.
She just will NOT go away.
It started with her showing up at his house one time before we were dating and me having to wait for him down the road in my car. Then her showing up at the bar we were at and punching him in the face and being carried out kicking and screaming to private number calls ALL of the time, to leaving stalker messages on his car.
Now, I really don't know what to do with this girl anymore. They recently stopped talking in like April or so after a crazy ridiculous relationship where they had been broken up for a long time and just talking. Then he met me and stopped talking to her. So she went off the deep end. "Taking it really hard' I really don't give a shit how hard you're taking it, its been MONTHS, back the f*ck off.
I've blocked her on facebook because apparently she was trying to stalk me too. It will be a serious problem when we run into each other at the bar because I will not let her walk away without hearing what I have to say to her and making it CLEAR that she needs to pretend like M is dead and not contact him anymore.
Does anyone have any experience with this? How do you not allow this to affect your relationship? I get so mad when she calls or leaves him messages on his car, I don't know how to not get mad at him.....
Anyone with advice... please!!
15 comments:
Yeesh that's ridiculous because like you said it's been over for months btwn them. If she's that psycho stay away from her & block her on things because I think it's M's place to end this. Does she want him back or something? If so he needs to tell her that she's out your in & that he doesn't want her in his life. I'm sorry dear for hearing this. You deserve a great relationship & this isn't fair to you all this crap from his ex. I hope this comes to some terms that doesn't mess up your relationship with M.
Typically- I usually follow the rule keep your friends close and your enemies closer. The ex sounds like a real crazy person and who knows if M tells her how it is- would she just go away? M needs to step up and deal with it.
I can't give you any advice, I'm sorry. I haven't dealt with something like this. I hope she gets the point soon and just leaves you two alone. She's obviously taking her breakup with him really hard...
yeah exactly... who knows what he tells her.... it really makes me wonder... but then again i hear from all different angles that shes crazy.. and i did see pictures of her.. so i dont exactly have anything to worry about... lol but i mean who knows!!!
i have no clue
UGH - ex-gf's are the worst!! She sounds TERRIBLE! I'd def question his intentions as well if he is not telling her to back off, but he also may be telling her and she just!doesn't!get!it!
just scream. and drink. they both help....:) good luck!!
I'm with the ones who say M needs to stand up to her and take care of this...you really shouldn't have to deal with it at all.
And if she really is just psycho...send her to my blog...I think I have a post on how to get over your ex...
LOL
Much Love,
Mercedes
Or...you can send her to someone else's blog. I spoke rather quickly...
My ex finally got the point when I started dating someone else but she sounds even further off the deep end. Sorry.
Do they have children together? If they don't, he should block her from everything and change his phone number.
restraining order, pronto! She is straight up harassing him.
yeah for reall!!!! nope no children.
wow that is unreal. i'd say restraining order and blacklist her number on both of your lines. has he confronted her about it?
i am pretty sure he has but who knows?!
restraining order!!!! hahaha it's the way to go i tell ya ;)
LOVE that shirt BTW!!!
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That's a hard one.
I think you have to remember that he's with you, and not with her. Try as hard as you can to not be jealous.
It's kind of like a bully-if you ignore her, shut her down-no contact of any sort-she will eventually get tired of it and move on. She needs the feedback-the hint that she is bothering you, or him, and the distant possibility that he may go back to her. If you deny her that, she'll stop.
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