"You may not be her first, her last, or her only. She loved before, she may love again. But if she loves you now, what else matters? She's not perfect- you aren't either, and the two of you may never be perfect together, but if she can make you laugh, cause you to think twice, and admit to being human and making mistakes, hold onto her and give her the most you can. She may not be thinking about you every second of the day, but she will give you a part of her that she knows you can break- her heart. So don't hurt her, don't change her, don't analyze and don't expect more than she can give. Smile when she makes you happy, let her know when she makes you mad, and miss her when she's not there"
-Bob Marley
This here is such a fucking awesome quote, that it doesn't only apply to T, it applies to every single guy out there that will someday date me. That Bob Marley, what a genius ;) I have always been so inspired by his music, and then when I saw this quote, I can relate to it very well..
So I was asked yesterday to go to a party this weekend by R, who is T's best friend, and he told me that T would be there. Although it is his birthday, I declined, because I really don't have anything to say to T, I don't know if I would even be able to handle seeing him, let alone being in the same place as him, LET ALONE being completely ignored and honestly, I cannot handle it right now. No way in hell. I would be right back to square 1 if I saw him and it took a lot of work and I am making some progress now to get where I am and not thinking about him everyday. So NO! I will NOT be going to this party, nor anywhere that T is for at LEAST a year.
That is my T story of the day. I am hoping there will be less and less.
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15 comments:
Good for you! It sounds like a good decision. Sometimes you have to just remove yourself from these types of situations so you don't have to deal with it. I really like that quote, too.
I was literally in the same position 2 weeks ago. One of my ex's & I's mutual friends was having a birthday party & I couldn't go. I just didn't want to my C & his new gf if she was there or whoever girl hes dating now. I feel bad because the guy's bday is a great friend of mine & had NO idea about me & C. But luckily it snowed the day so I got out of it anyway.
I don't blame ya for not going. I did the same thing myself.
ok for real this quote is freaking amazing.
i think i may doodle it.
and i don't blame you for not going to that party. i probably wouldn't have gone either!
Yet another reason to love Bob!
I'm printing that sucker out and sticking it on the fridge!! ;)
Man I love that quote. And I love Bob Marley just as much! And well done you - I know a part of you must be tempted to go to the party out of curiosity, or even spite, but you're being the bigger person.
Love the quote and it sounds like the party decision was the right one
Kate xx
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wow. wow. wow. this resonates. but somehow, while i agree with every word, i also disagree in part. this relates to me only but i think if i took this to heart, it might become a really inconvenient excuse not to change those things i really do need to. for him and for me. whoa, cryptic. i really shouldn't think and type at the same time.
LOVE that quote. Good for you for making decisions that feel good and will keep you and your heart safe.
I love your blog too darlin!!
oh God, fell for that quote!! it's so different and inspiring!!
i didn't know that Bob Marley said something like that..
so thanks for sharing :)
love.
I'm definitely reposting this! This is so awesome
This is an amazing quote. Brilliant actually. Thank you so much for sharing it!
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