December... And a Dating Update

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It is finally here. It has been a year since my whole life changed and I got more serious about school and saving money and working with kids instead of in sales. It's also almost been a year since the whole relationship I had of mine went down the drain and it has been a constant headache for mostly the whole year after, which is now finally over, again.

As we go into the holiday season, I wish I was in Florida with my niece. But I cannot go there until January due to school and work.

Here is what I have been learning in the past couple of months........

-School is also almost done, which I am sure everyone else is very excited about as well, except we finish December 22nd... like who the hell is really thinking about what is on their final on December 22nd? The only thing I am thinking that day is, who the hell do I need gifts for and where in the hell am I going to get them that doesn't have a line out the door where I might die trying to buy it?

-I have been promoting my restaurant that I work at hardcore, and would appreciate it very much if you could go and "like" it by clicking this link on to Facebook: Olives Restaurant

-I have had crazy shit happen with men and "relationships" in the past couple of months since I have been MIA, and its too much stupid shit to write about or even wanting to talk about it, but I can sum it up in some sentences:

-My ex will always be the person that he is and he will never change no matter how good I am to him.
-Portuguese men are my new favorite people
-21 year olds are so fucking dumb
-If I am asking you for help as a desperate measure and you tell me you can be there in an 1 1/2 hours, pretty sure you will not be graced by my presence again
-If you're 45 and stalking me at my bar and having flowers delivered to me and shoving money at me and still I am not attracted to you, give up!!!!
-Albanians are crazy as fuck but so damn hot
-Nice men will always finish last... just like nice girls.


-iPhone touch screens are very difficult, even worse when driving or drinking.

-I made sweet potatoes for Thanksgiving but I burned them and had to redo the marshmallows... lol

That is pretttttty much the gist of life living in my new apartment.

Bring it on holiday season!

Happy Long Weekend

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these past couple of weeks have been insane. i will have to update on them next week after the holiday.
nothing i had ever expected is happening, and now it puts me in a really awkward and ridiculous situation with too much stuff going on and too many realizations happening about different people.

between the ex, the current, and the londoner... this weekend will be absolutely confusing. and i cannot wait for it to be over.

too many thoughts too many things to think about!

have a good weekend everyone... enjoy your alcohol and fireworks and be safe!

Welcome December!

This month is going to be insane. I don't know when I will have time to do anything. There is 24 days left till Christmas! Oh myyyy! Is anyone even ready for that?!

This year went by so fast. I can't believe it.
This month I have to...
-Find a new job!!!!!!!
-Finish my presentation and take a final
-Take a teaching test
-Have a christmas party at my house
-Work christmas party
-Giants game
-Look for jobs & apply.
-Christmas shopping.

Its just too much, I wish I did more over the Thanksgiving weekend if i realized how much I was actually going to have to do this month.

How is your December looking, crazy?

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It's Cold Out! Donate Now!

As you might already know, I volunteer at the SPCA of Westchester on the weekends walking the dogs.

Now, the dogs are outside. Not completely outside, but overall, they are on concrete floors and have heavy plastic covers to the areas where the dogs are to block them from the wind. There is a heater on the inside which connects all of the dogs together but you cannot feel it very well. That is all they have to work with. Needless to say, IT IS COLD.

The shelter is always collecting blankets and I wanted to put a word out to my readers to help me get a gift for the dogs by either you donating money so I can buy the blankets OR sending me the blankets in the mail.

I realize that sending a blanket in the mail will cost you more money, so I have set up a paypal donation fund where you can donate, even if it's just $1.

I am hoping to collect as much money as possible by January 10th so I can go and buy some fleece blankets that they have at CVS for like $2 or $5.

So I am asking all of my readers to help me out, because they need it. You can donate money to the shelter too with the link above, but honestly, I am always afraid that when I donate money that it never even gets to the dogs so thats why giving actual items is much better.

Here are the options you can do to help. You can...

A) donate the money to a paypal account and I will go purchase the blankets, take pictures of them at the shelter and so forth,

or

B) ill give you my address and you can send me your old blankets and ill bring them to the shelter.

Completely up to you.

This will be our Blogger Xmas Gift to my shelter!

Donate Here:

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I hope you can help me out in a little way.

Thank you :)

Sexy Holiday Outfits?

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To go with...

Sexy Holiday Outfit Party??

Would you wear this?