Everything has been good with M and I. We get alone really well, we have fun together, we go out, we do things, we see each other, we like each other, we compliment each other.. etc etc. One on going problem in our relationship from day one has been his psycho ex.
She just will NOT go away.
It started with her showing up at his house one time before we were dating and me having to wait for him down the road in my car. Then her showing up at the bar we were at and punching him in the face and being carried out kicking and screaming to private number calls ALL of the time, to leaving stalker messages on his car.
Now, I really don't know what to do with this girl anymore. They recently stopped talking in like April or so after a crazy ridiculous relationship where they had been broken up for a long time and just talking. Then he met me and stopped talking to her. So she went off the deep end. "Taking it really hard' I really don't give a shit how hard you're taking it, its been MONTHS, back the f*ck off.
I've blocked her on facebook because apparently she was trying to stalk me too. It will be a serious problem when we run into each other at the bar because I will not let her walk away without hearing what I have to say to her and making it CLEAR that she needs to pretend like M is dead and not contact him anymore.
Does anyone have any experience with this? How do you not allow this to affect your relationship? I get so mad when she calls or leaves him messages on his car, I don't know how to not get mad at him.....