A Day of Recovery

This long weekend has been really amazing. I had such a great time. Even though I spent every day hungover and drinking, it was a lot of fun.

Between seeing all the high school friends from the past and then being real hung over at Thanksgiving, sitting around doing nothing with the family, partying it up with the girls and guys at the bar, switching gym memberships, went out to lunch with my girl I used to work with, hanging with the brother before he left for school, more high school friends and parties, oh and more drinking.

Here I am on Sunday, hungover, again, tired... and its beautiful out, and I look like a hot mess. I think I will not be drinking until next weekend.





I was very much liking my outfit this night! I loved good :) Fun times!

Essentially all I did this weekend was drink and nothing more. I was definitely not pro-active this weekend! Good thing and bad thing!

So to finish the update on the whole cell phone drama, I get a phone call on Friday morning from Verizon, some bitch who decided she wanted to ruin my whole day, left me a message saying that T called and was interested in getting his phone turned on and wanted to take it over. So I, FURIOUS by the way, try calling verizon back, and 3 people later, get no answer whatsoever from anyone. I essentially give up because I am ready to throw my phone out the window and punch someone in the face.

So all weekend I have been trying to call someone at Verizon to figure out what to do what the hell is going on. Finally today they tell me that I have to give approval, get him as an authorized user and then he can switch the phone into his name and all this shit. I decided, before I screamed at ANOTHER verizon employee, I called T's from R. I asked R, who just came back from Italy with him, if I should bother putting anymore effort into getting him the phone line and he told me that T got a prepaid phone. I basically almost laughed in R's face when he said that for the amount of stress this whole phone situation has put on me and how easy it is for T to just pick up a prepaid phone with no consequences.

How do I always end up getting fucked in the end?! I don't get it.


I found out for New Year's Eve I have a hotel room in NYC!!!!!! My dad reserved one for me and my brother in case we wanted to go....so that just made everything work out SO well because we were planning on going to a bar in Times Square anyway. I am PSYCHED!

The roomie and I are decorating the apartment today for Christmas so I will take pictures then to show you the new place, because we didnt put any pictures up yet for some reason and its very plain so I had to wait!

How was everyone's Turkey Day and long weekends/regular weekends?

Goal of the Week: To Be Better

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Thank god its only a 3 day work week. I really did save my very last vacation days for the holidays (thankfully!) so now I have off on Friday to lounge and do nothing!

I know this week will be better than last week. It is only 3 days long at work, it really can't be THAT horrible right!? I hope I didn't just jinx myself.

Here is my list of why this week will be better.

1. 3 day work week
2. Thanksigiving with the family!
3. Thanksgiving Eve out in my hometown and seeing everyone from high school and such
4. I realized by canceling T's phone (WHICH I found out that Verizon tried to call T and left him a message and he never called back.... typical) i will be saving $500 a year, so I am eating the $95.
   
5. I am switching gyms to New York Sports Club at the end of this week and canceling my gym membership. NYSC is going to wave my sign up fee, take $15 off my bill next month so that I can join for December and not have to pay in full amount for the month for the membership since I have to pay one last month at my old gym. I will be saving $300 a year, from $85/month to $64.
6. I get to drink with my brother since he's not 21!
7. I can sleep in!
8. Going to the dog shelter on Sunday
9. Making pumpkin pie!!!!!
10. Eating sweet potatoes!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    

What is in store for your week?

Why This Week Sucks

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• Verizon can kiss my fucking ass. I WILL be screaming at them because apparently they cant accomplish SHIT
• T for not picking up the fucking phone so now i have to pay $95
  
• My job for being SO GODDAMN HORRIBLE
• Dates I was supposed to go on whom of which DITCHED ME
• Being really upset about T going to Rome yesterday because that is what we used to do, I should be there with him and IM NOT.
• My exhaust starting to leak and not having T to fix it for me
• The weather for being so inconsistent!
• Everyone for being so goddamn anal this week
• SCHOOL BUSES being in my way on the way to work everyday
• Being broke
• No knowing what the hell to do with my life
• For being so lonely and waiting around for people and not getting up and doing anything about it.

Sorry, im done ranting.
Have a good weekend.

Phone Update

I figured I needed to update everyone on what I decided to do with my and T's phone situation (plus I really need to talk about it as well, since this is the last tie I have to him)

So i spoke to everyone, heard all of your thoughts... and thank you btw,, it really really helped because I didn't think it was that big of a problem before I started talking to his friend R and then I wrote that post. Apparently it was a def big no no! So i finally spoke to my mom and she convinced me that since he hasn't tried to get back with me, contact me, see if i am alive, anything like that.. its been three months and nothing. My mom, who its the shit btw :) , she told me I should text T and tell him myself that I would be canceling the phone instead of having one of his friends tell him.

I, naturally, freak out and get nervous and don't want to do that. She goes, "that is the problem you had when you were dating; go ahead be strong" Ah, touche Mother, touche..... I never voiced my opinion and I never spoke back to him and I was always afraid to say anything to him for some reason... who knows.

I ended up calling Verizon and talking to them about what to do. And seriously? THANK GOD FOR VERIZON!!! The guy is going to call T by the 20th and have him fill out a form and switch the phone into his name. So i don't even have to do ANYTHING! Verzion is going to do my dirty work FOR ME! Amazing. But if T doesn't answer the phone or cooperate, then he is going to call me back by the 20th and I will pay the cancellation fee.

So I manned up and text T this after that convo:
"Hi. I wanted to let you know Verizons gonna call you to switch the phone into your name by Nov. 20th. Hope everything is good. Jen"


AH I was freaking out. Obviously he did NOT respond to me. Nor did I think he would, but that is the first time I have text him since we moved out.

I ended up talking to R last night for an hour about the whole T situation and he was telling me his opinion and he thinks that T and I just had a serious communication misunderstanding, which really sucks because I can definitely see that being true, but that's only because T is a stubborn bitch. But he basically told me that I need to move on and that maybe one day if T and I ever run into each other at a party we'll talk but other than that he doesn't think itll happen anytime soon. And let me tell you, that will NEVER happen. I will avoid AT ALL COSTS to go to a party where T will be. Screw that... I dont need that.

SO
In the end... I manned up and by Nov 20th, there will be no T left in my life whatsoever.. except for some of our furniture that I have in my new apartment... but that's it.

Ugh.

I don't know how i feel about this. I have no emotion left for this. :( Everything about T makes me numb.