Friday, August 7, 2009

Week in Review

It is Friday -- Blogger hasnt been working all day, its 20 to 5pm... and I have to leave to go down the shore tonight, and hit MASSIVE amounts of traffic. So I will most likely be extending my stay at work for a bit to catch up on some blogs.

~ I got forced into an open position in my office because my position I have doesn't revenue attached to it and i'm supposed to "fill in" when there is an open spot. BASICALLY in short, they are screwing me, and giving me no choice, YET AGAIN. ugh!

~My girlie bought me a purty flower for my desk!

~I am leaving to go down the shore tonight until Monday so I can spend time at the beach with the fam and maybe some friends and drink all my problems awayyyy! lol

~ We went out to happy hour last night a bunch of peoples, my friends from work, old friends who used to work with me, T, some of his friends, other random people we know that I didnt think would be there, etc. It was a huge group and it was a lot of fun; for the most part.
T was pretty cool for the most part, he never comes out to happy hour after work with me and my friends so this was pretty big. Then this random girl (that only Toms friends knew) started talking to T and rubbing his head (very strange), which made me a LITTLE mad. So I gave her that LOOK. You know, the look that says "back the fuck off" without saying it? Yeah, i did that. So.. i kind of figured we were going to have a fight later on about whatever. I just had that feeling.
So the night went on and everything was cool, T and I dont really talk very much but whatever, I dont care. We get home and he starts at me with a "what makes you think you can tell me when I can smoke or not smoke" ... and then it started.
He laid into me for like almost two hours about how he didn't even really want to come, but I assumed he was coming, which was complete BULLSHIT because I had asked him, called him, text him, and he said he was coming. And then he's like oh well you never do what you say you're doing...and then how I am disrespectful because I didnt wait for him to eat, me and my girl just grabbed some food at the stand (bc we didnt really go there for DINNER just to DRINK, HELLO) and continued into saying how when we're together that I am not really there, I am always texting or on the computer or something.
As well as asking me why I said anything about that girl? And i continue to tell him i didnt actually SAY anything; i gave her the look and that was it! Plus his friends were looking at me with that "what are you gonna do?!" look and really, I will F people up, but i didnt want to cause a scene so I DIDNT. And he's saying why did I cause a scene and why was everyone asking him about why I was mad and shit. I couldnt belevie that. What the fuck? Am i just supposed to step down? And turn my head and smile? Get the fuck out of here. And this just dragged on and on, about how I go out all the time and Im disrespectful and so on.
He ended it saying he didnt give a shit anymore and that he was basically now looking for an exit plan. Im like, well? I obviously cannot be that girl that you want. So -- make your move.
And then the convo ended. And nothing happened after that. So i mean, I dont know whats going to happen when I go home? But I am leaving until Monday, so we shall see.

~I went to a clam bake last weekend, which was fun, got too drunk at like 2pm, so continued to be tired the rest of the day.

~Sunday night I went to the NY International Latino and saw a Kiss of Chaos
It was really awesome you should go check it out!!! The actors were there too afterwards to answer questions. Very cool :)

Okay everyone have a good weekend.


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27 comments:

XANABIOTICX said...

hey there, love. forgive my shortcomings. i'm feeling much better now. yay!
i love that flower! in fact, me and my roommate were looking at photos of that flower! i forgot what it's called though.

Shop Girl* said...

Ahhh sorry you ended up fighting with your man, but I can't believe he laid into you like that! You had every right to give the girl eyes if she was doing something that made you uncomfortable, and really, he shouldn't have let it happen in the first place!!

I hope you have a fabulous weekend away, and that things get worked out for you two. xo

the girl in stiletto said...

holycrap! i'm terribly sorry to hear this. whatever it is, i'm on your side. and whatever you decide, you're gonna decide what's the best for you :)

The Girl of Make Believe said...

Aww I'm sorry *hugs*
Have a great weekend, you deserve it :)

Miss Mercedes said...

Yeah...you don't need to f her up or anything (yes...do the look...that's totally appropriate and I LOVE it!!) what you do is smile, turn around and flirt your ASS off with the next hot male you see. (Rule #7 on my blog is "Flirt Your Butt Off!" and it's one of my favorites!). You're so awesome...I love your spunk!

Ali said...

Sorry to hear about the fight.

Other than that, sounds fun! Haha.

Have a good weekend, lovely lady.

OceanDreams said...

Oh goodness, sorry about what happened but hopefully T will miss you over the weekend and you two will work things out, I know that is hard. But...have so much fun on the beach, you know that is where I am going to be too darlin! XO

The Novelista Barista said...

thanks everyone, i hope it gets better,and the beach will be fun!!

Moonjava said...

Oh geez, sorry to hear about the bar "fight". I don't think he was right in yelling at you, it's not you got into a fistfight, it was just a look (and I really don't think that's causing a scene).

Anyway, hope you have a good weekend!

for the love of pictures said...

Sorry to hear about the fight and work, but I hope you have fun this weekend. The flower is gorgeous, btw :)

KekeLynn said...

Wow, that was a heck of a night, sorry!! And giving the "look" was def a better choice than starting some big scene and looking like the jealous gf!

Have a great time at the shore and enjoy yourself!

mysterg said...

It was probably just the drink talking from happy hour, just don't let him disrespect you though by letting him put all the blame at your door. Trust me, that's very much a guy trick to make ourselves feel better! Have a good weekend.

Renee Q said...

Sorry to hear that shug. Sounds like he was just looking for an excuse to fight. I mean my guys would think it was awesome if I shot some girl a back off look lol But anyway I hope your weekend gets better. Just be glad you got a job I guess. I know it sucks mine is moving me all around to.

pinkapplecore said...

grr.... i'm sorry that happened hun. I hope you try to forget this and have fun this weekend. <3

Jill Pilgrim said...

That does not sound like fun... I hope your weekend's going well to make up for your crappy week. :)

My Wooden Heart said...

Oh my goodness... I hope everything turns out okay. I don't think you did anything wrong personally and it sounds to me like he was definitely over reacting.

Keep us up to date on what happens. I think you deserve to be happy first and foremost, so definitely put yourself first.

Kim.

nicole addison said...

i will be drinking all of my problems away tonight :) and i am very excited! haha hope you had fun!! xoxo

Elise said...

Hi, just wanted to say how much I've enjoyed reading your posts and how wonderful your pictures are - really breathtaking ! Thankyou for sharing

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GARF said...

Yours is one of the two blogs i follow especially, very closely. It somehow turned out that way. And let me tell you that the other blogger is also going through a very rough phase...and so am i. And now here i only hope that things turn out for the good for you. Hope u get what u deserve...and i pray that things end up on a great note. May u get the happiness.

Retromus-ik said...

wow. I'm wishing you the best. I hope you make the right decision for you;)

Thomas said...

What a week.

Andhari said...

You're actually being polite by just staring, I mean what is she doing rubbing his head like that? I'm sorry you guys fought, he shouldve been more considerate and if he didnt wanna come then he shouldn't. It's not you making a scene, it's him.

spanky* said...

luv the new look lady. it turned out great! i'm glad that it looks so great as a whole (other than just the bits that i saw before).

hurry back & post more. i miss you. hope you're having fun on the beach, you bitch!

xo

Mrs. C said...

So sorry to hear about all of that :(

Jo said...

Wow! What a night!! How has it been since you've been back from the beach??

M.J. said...

Fuck no...You should stand up for your self every time!

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