i can't even think of words to write as a title
there is no title, just numb.
my sadness has no words, but I have to write something because otherwise it will all be kept inside and ill continue to be numb to my surroundings.
it feels like my world is coming crashing down.
what did i except? for t to say he loves me and will stay with me no matter what? after how hard i didnt try?
he said i didn't try. and its too late for me to try.
i gave up.
and so did he. I gave up when he had given up and thats when i was supposed to be showing him how much he meant to me and i didn't.
and i let him down. i gave up when i shouldnt have because i was being selfish. yeah, he was definitely not perfect and yeah, neither am i and together, we are a whole bunch of mess, but it worked for a long time. we were happy. things were good. we loved each other. he was my best friend.
and now we are here. him saying not to try to contact him after this, that we cannot be friends and that is his coping, cutting ties, like we're death to each other.
i don't want him gone.
he tried so hard and i was so blind. so blind and naive. and so young. and immature. i didn't know what was in front of me.
and now its gone.
i have to move on. i have to leave him be. to have his life. to have mine. separately.
i look around my apartment, i think about the life we had and i cry because it is so depressing that it's over. really really over. and no matter what i do? It will not matter. I am too late. Right?
There is nothing I can do to make this better, and that is the worst feeling in the world. That i cannot fix something and i will lose yet another important person from my life.
and now, my best friend is gone. and here i am.
yeah, he was an asshole for the past months until the end, yeah he said something fucked up shit, yeah he wasnt the best. and maybe i wasnt either?
he actually loved me and i pushed him so far out of my life that now we are here.
i know i have been so pro-ending of my relationship and now that its here, i want to do anything to take it back.
I DON'T WANT TO HEAR THAT IM GOING TO BE OKAY. (sorry this is not directed at anyone, i just cant yell in my apt. because its too late)
I fucked up.
i cannot go back in the past.
honestly, i dont even think we could try to fix things now even if we tried really hard, he is too far past the point of disliking me from all the shit that went down in the past two months that there is nothing left.
i can never be that girl that he wants me to be.
you can't see what you had until its walking out the door.
i dont even know what to say anymore.