Wednesday, October 6, 2010

the ups and downs

M and I have been having some problems. It's been so early in the relationship but they're still there. I believe in him. I want to be with him. I very much like him.

Those are the important things.

Will I get hurt? Maybe

Will he do something wrong? Maybe

I am willing to look past things and keep going. I have with other people who deserved MUCH less of a chance. Some people think I'm being stupid and naive and letting him do whatever he wants but honestly...if anything goes really wrong again where he is questioning if he wants to be with me or not, I am done.

His debates between not sure if he's ready for us or a relationship etc. etc. and then deciding he wants to be with me, have been really rough and hurtful -- but at least he was honest about it and said something instead of just acting weird and running away.

So I guess we are trying to work on things now. I can't do the half in / half out relationship. It's either all or nothing, but I will be proceeding with caution.



Melanie's Randomness said...

The fact that there is communication between you two & that he's not just getting weird is a good sign. But if it just doesn't work it's okay to walk away. I'm hoping that you guys can work on this. Good luck sweetie.

Namine said...

keep communicating and hopefully your heart won't get hurt. HUGS!!

Love the pictures it's fabulous and I might just do it.

Aritza, Goddess of .. said...

That's a tough one, it seems so many men have those issues.. not knowing if they want to be in the relationship or not. Be patient, give him space to figure things out and most of all, protect your heart the best you can. Good luck lady :) xox

Fidgeting Gidget said...

I'm with these ladies when they say communication is key, but also, listen to your gut. Don't sell yourself short and make excuses for him just because you want it to work so badly, because bottom line, if it's not a 50/50 effort, it won't work, no matter how much you overlook things or bust your ass to make it work. Trust me. I know. I overlooked things and made excuses for a guy for four years before I got dumped. I just don't want you to get hurt. You're worth more than that.

Novelista Barista said...

aw thanks everyone for ur advice. i really appreciate it.
i am def proceeding with caution

Samantha said...

At least you guys are talking about it and working on things. I hope things work out well for you! And I love that photo!


accidentally, kle said...

:( I really hope things work out for you, whatever way is best. Chin up x


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